I’m not exactly sure why people feel comfortable talking about their sex lives with me. I host fetish events and walk around in corsets, so in those specific instances, yes, I get that I am literally putting myself out there for people to talk dirty to me. But even in my youth, I was the one advising my friends on french kissing or positive body image. Through the years I’ve learned that it stems from the desire to make people around me feel good. I’m a “people person”.
What if stepping into your power meant letting go?
When we think of being empowered or accessing our power, we understand by now that it means an internal power, not what someone or some situation can offer.
But we often think it’s about gathering up something within us. Acquiring something that makes us powerful.
Style is so much more than clothing, makeup, scarves and jewelry. Style is the love child born out of self-discovery and self-promotion. Style is a reflection of your life and personality and the starting point at which people judge you.
For many years I’ve struggled with identity. From identifying as a fundamentalist Christian to my current identity as a strong queer woman it’s all been a journey. Like all journeys it’s had it’s dips, turns, stops and starts.
Small town Texas was not the most “queer” fostering of places. In fact it was rather opposed to it. As a child who was assigned a male gender it was anything
Full disclosure here: I am a fat woman. I haven’t always been fat. It used to be […]
There’s a lot of talk amongst spiritual people about “purpose”. Oprah’s always Tweeting about it. Your Facebook friends post memes about it. What are you here to do? What’s the path that’s a good fit for your ego and your spirit? If you figure it out, will your life finally get easier?
Perhaps you are wondering, “What in the heck are microaggressions and why should I care about them?” Well […]
It’s almost summer and the “bikini body” is probably weighing heavily on your mind. That’s great, but the more important concern is what the hell you’re going to be listening to while sporting that bikini.
I’ve dyed my hair, I’ve painted my nails, and I’ve started doing things. This is most unusual. I’ve […]